10 Sexy New Year's Resolutions
10 Sexy New Year’s Resolutions You’ll Actually Keep
While everyone is busy making weight loss goals for the New Year, you’re thinking about sex with your spouse. Congratulations on being a generous lover. And good call not making New Year’s resolutions you’ll never keep.
Most people promise themselves or others the moon this time of year. With good intentions, they try to manifest the perfect life without the tools to get it done. But you’re different. You’re making these ten resolutions for your marriage because life is short. And sex is great.
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Nights when you make love to your spouse are the best. You both climax together as time flies. But then you have to get up and move on with your life. So, when are you supposed to improve the situation? The answer is now.
This year is going to be even better than the last. That’s because you’re about to adopt these ten sexy New Year’s resolutions that are easy to keep:
#1. Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby
BEST FOR: ENCOURAGING COMMUNICATION
Talking about your sex life can help establish a stronger bond with your spouse. Sexy conversations also help you relieve stress and express desires. So, start the year off right with open and honest chatting. But don’t forget to take detailed notes because you can use the information every day.
Start a journal of your spouse’s questions, comments, and concerns. Then update the entries as you learn and grow more intimate. You can share the pages with your spouse or keep them confidential. However, try not to write anything you wouldn’t say to them in person.
Tell your sweetie how sexy you think she is. Then give her specific examples of why you feel so attracted to her.
Begin talking dirty to your man. And try to be as descriptive as possible, especially when you’re in bed.
#2. Make Love Fun Again
BEST FOR: LIGHTHEARTED LOVE
Why so serious? You can have fun and still maintain a wholesome marriage. That’s because your spouse is supposed to be your best friend and playmate. So, try a game for couples to add some spice to your stale recipe. Organized games show that you know how to let loose while respecting your spouse’s boundaries.
Pick out a few games to give your boo some options. Then make sure you have the necessary items to play all night. Most games come with accessories and toys included. However, you might have to buy extra gear or pay for replacements and expansion packs. Try to be prepared for anything and go with the flow.
Reduce stress when you get ready for the game night ahead of time. And don’t forget to let her win.
Prepare for heated competition and try your best to win. Then, let him feel like he has the upper hand.
#3. Open the Toybox
BEST FOR: EXPERIMENTING
The human body can only do so much. And we haven’t figured out how to make a man’s penis yet. So, adventurous couples often incorporate marital aids to experience more intense sensations. They fulfill each other’s fantasies - because it’s about giving your spouse what they want, even if that requires batteries.
Choose sex toys that can help you express your sexual desires. Let this year celebrate giving and receiving. But try not to fall into old habits when shopping. Use this as an opportunity to finally experience what you’ve always craved.
Enjoy instant gratification when you look for devices that enhance her sensations and make her feel sexy.
Let your man be vulnerable but select something that helps him feel more powerful in the bedroom.
#4. Gain a New Perspective
BEST FOR: HITTING THE SPOT
You know that freaky position you’ve been dying to try? Now is the perfect time for it. As one of your New Year’s resolutions, vow to stop doing it missionary style all the time. This time, you can switch it up and do it how they do on the Discovery Channel. Plus, different sexy poses can help you both reach orgasm faster.
Choose supportive sex pillows and adjustable wedges to create a safe environment. Then, combine your elevated approach with new toys and other bedroom goals. Whip out the hidden Liberator furniture to achieve fantastic feats. And go to bed with a smile on your face instead of a cramp in your back.
Try to be gentle with your wife because you can hurt her if you thrust too hard in the heat of the moment.
Be adventurous for your husband by letting him take control of what happens next.
#5. Play Dress-Up
BEST FOR: A REASON TO WEAR LINGERIE
Your spouse probably thinks you’d look good wearing a trash bag. But that doesn’t mean you can’t give them some eye candy anyway. Sexy lingerie speaks volumes about your intentions. And it helps boost your confidence while getting your partner excited.
Pick outfits that accentuate your curves and make your spouse feel lucky. Think outside the box, choosing options with revealing features and intimate details. Then, let your partner peel it from your body one layer at a time. You can even incorporate the ensemble into one of your games.
Choose your wife’s favorite lingerie or buy her something new for the occasion.
Let your husband pick the lingerie he wants you to wear, and then put it on with a smile.
#6. Do It More Often
BEST FOR: FREQUENCY PROBLEMS
Some couples don’t have sex as often as they’d like. And it seldom has anything to do with how much they love each other. Life can get in the way of intimacy. So, try to make more time for your love life this year. Then encourage your spouse to do the same.
Frequent sex is good for your health. It provides mood-boost effects and helps reduce your stress. That means you should be having more sex with your spouse as life becomes more hectic. It’s not the other way around, regardless of what your lifestyle says.
Don’t wait for your wife to make a pass before you show her some affection.
Let your husband know how bad you want him with small gestures and seductive suggestions.
#7. Put Sex on the Schedule
BEST FOR: QUALITY TIME
You are in love with your spouse for a reason. So, this is the year to show it. You can pass little notes and flirt all day long. But quality time is the best way to express your affection and establish intimacy in marriage. Meanwhile, you get to take a break from reality and just be with each other for a while.
Quality time is one of the five love languages. And that means your spouse could require it to feel loved in the relationship. But if you’re always too busy to get together one-on-one, your marriage will suffer. So, plan a date night at least once per month to show your spouse you still care.
Do most of the planning for date night to demonstrate your commitment to the relationship.
Allow your husband to take the reins, then give him honest but positive feedback afterward.
#8. Give a Taste of Your Love
BEST FOR: THE MUNCHIES
Sex in marriage is delicious. So, get a taste as often as you can. Research shows that couples who enjoy an adventurous love life stay together for longer. And since you’re in this for the long haul, why not experiment with your betrothed? Think yummy treats like edible underwear.
Buy some for your spouse to try on under their new lingerie. Then slip into a pair of delectable panties to turn yourself into a fresh dessert. You can wear them comfortably for several hours, and you don’t even have to finish your plate to get more.
Try to eat your way around the prize to build suspense and work up an appetite.
Choose an edible panty flavor that your husband will love to keep him coming back for more.
#9. Better Skills for Better Thrills
BEST FOR: LIVING AND LEARNING
You can start to assume too much when you’ve been married for a while. You might also think you know it all, with few necessary adjustments to your approach. But love is a battlefield. And marriage is a journey of two independent souls. So, you must continually relearn what makes your spouse tick.
Gather some helpful resources this year and start educating yourself about the dos and don’ts of Christian marriage. Pick up some interactive literature or try to find a few instructional videos. You can also ask your pastor for advice if your efforts don’t work.
Pick a Biblical resource that lets you digest complex information in small, practical chunks.
Try to find a marriage Bible study that focuses on building intimacy in marriage according to God’s plan.
#10. Fulfill Neglected Fantasies (try new things, prostate massage)
BEST FOR: TRYING NEW THINGS
‘Tis the season to let go of your inhibitions and start living your best life in the bedroom. But that can be different things for every couple. So, turn this resolution into an opportunity to try new things. Case in point: prostate massage. It not only provides an intense orgasm, but it’s also good for your health.
Experiment with activities that have been taboo in your relationship. However, don’t cross the line into the sinful territory. Refer to Resolution #1 for advice on how to communicate your desires. Then, do your best to fulfill fantasies using the tools at your disposal.
Let your wife push your boundaries to new heights for more satisfying climaxes.
Give your husband the keys to your body so he can demonstrate his skills.
Feel free to use these goals as you wish. And don’t be afraid to customize the approach or tailor each experience to your relationship. You can always sync up this time next year to see how things progress.
3 Ways To Have a Sexier New Year
Take sexual pleasure with your spouse to a whole new level this year. Incorporate these sexy New Year’s resolutions that you’ll actually keep. But don’t act like a rookie. Prepare for a feast of the senses by following these three simple steps:
Step #1. Select Top-Quality Products
Your sweetie deserves the best. But aside from that, low-quality products can malfunction, break, or cause an accident. So, don’t let money be your primary concern. Think about investing in your marriage instead. Then, buy only top-quality sex toys, lingerie, and accessories for the coming year.
Step #2. Keep an Open Mind
Remember what it felt like to fall in love with your spouse. You would have done anything to get their attention and make them feel the same way. But marriage can grow stale over time. So, commit to trying new things and remaining open to your spouse’s desires. You might be surprised by how much you have in common.
Step #3. Track Your Progress
Keep track of the wins and losses throughout the year. You can use the information to help improve skills, build trust, enhance intimacy, and have more fun. Write down or share your thoughts about specific events or sensations. Then, use that open mind and loving heart to fulfill your spouse’s needs like no one else can.
OTHER RESOURCES FROM ROMANTIC BLESSINGS
Romantic Blessings believes all married couples should enjoy intimacy the way they see fit. But learning new facts and techniques can be a challenge because sex is still taboo. So, check out our library of Christian-based resources to help you improve your love life and glorify God through a happy marriage.
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