Frequently Asked Questions

Many of our customers are first-timers, so please don’t feel uncomfortable or alone — until recently it was very hard to find a safe, nudity-free place for Christian shoppers. We offer lots of Christian-safe resources to help you begin: if you’re brand new, start with our New to Sex Toys guide; if you’d like to explore and learn more, browse our toy-information guides on vibrating, non-vibrating, and more adventurous toys. We also include detailed descriptions, feature explanations, and (where possible) explainer videos right on each product page.

There are many schools of thought on this. Some Christian leaders say sex toys are always sinful; others say they’re perfectly acceptable as long as the toy never becomes the focus of intimacy or replaces it. We believe the Bible is the Holy Word of God and the only ultimate authority — and while some try to read certain verses as being against marital aids, we have not found any verse that names sex toys as sin. Scripture speaks often about sex within marriage; sex toys existed in Biblical times, and we believe the Bible would have named them alongside other sexual sins if that were the case. (In fact, many scholars see specific intimacy imagery welcomed in Song of Solomon.)

What we can all agree Scripture makes clear: marriage is a gift from God, sex within marriage is holy, sex is designed by God for enjoyment as well as procreation, and intimacy within marriage helps guard against temptation. After much research and prayer, we believe sex toys are allowed within a Christian marriage — as long as both husband and wife consent, have prayed about it, and never let the toys come between their intimacy with each other and with God. But this is a decision each couple should make together, through prayer and honest conversation. For more, read “Are Sex Toys Allowed in a Christian Marriage?”

First and foremost, we’re owned and operated by a Christian married couple. A few of the things that set us apart: (1) we allow no pornographic or lustful imagery on our store or product pages; (2) we don’t sell “realistic” items; (3) we don’t knowingly sell products meant solely for homosexuality or for inviting additional partners; (4) we offer many resources beyond toys to enrich Christian marriage; and (5) we partner only with affiliates and organizations who are also focused on Christian marriage.

Yes. You must be at least 18 years old (or the age of majority where you live) to browse or purchase from Romantic Blessings. By entering the store, you confirm that you meet this requirement.

We currently accept Visa, Mastercard, American Express, Diners Club, PayPal, Venmo (through PayPal), and AfterPay — a buy-now, pay-later option.

Choose the AfterPay link on our checkout page and create an account if you don’t have one. Once AfterPay approves your account, you can purchase from our store and make four installment payments to AfterPay. For details, visit AfterPay Customer Support.

We use several payment processors depending on the method you choose, and each has built-in fraud prevention and security checks — for your protection and ours. Approvals and declines are handled entirely by these third-party processors and are outside our control. If a method is declined, please try another method we offer. (Note: there are velocity limits that automatically decline repeated attempts with the same method in a short window, to guard against fraud.)

Your order is sent to our warehouses in real time the moment you confirm it, so it usually can’t be canceled — once it’s in picking and packing it can no longer be canceled. If you need to cancel after it ships, the best option is to refuse the shipment when it arrives. If you can’t refuse it, please see our Return & Refund Policy, and contact us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com with any questions.

To add items, the easiest way is to place a second order with the additional items. For any other edits, email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com and we’ll accommodate changes as best we can.

Not at this time.

If you have a discount code, enter it in the discount box at checkout and it will apply to the eligible items in your cart. Only one code can be used per order — codes can’t be combined. Keep an eye on our emails and announcements for codes we share from time to time.

Yes! A Romantic Blessings gift card is a thoughtful, discreet way to bless a couple you care about — it’s delivered by email and lets them choose exactly what’s right for their marriage.

No — you’re welcome to check out as a guest. But a free account lets you earn and use loyalty points, see your order history, build a wishlist, and receive and redeem store credit. You can create one anytime.

Store credit appears on your account once it’s issued (for example, through our Satisfaction Guarantee) and can be applied toward a future purchase — you’ll need an account to receive and use it. Our Bonus Blessings rewards program also lets you earn store credit as you shop — for example, $5 in credit for every $50 on an order. Just create an account and join to start earning.

Both are wonderful; the best one depends on what you’re doing. Water-based lubricants are the most versatile and beginner-friendly, easy to clean up, and safe with every toy, including silicone ones. Silicone lubricants last longer and are great for extended play or in water — but don’t use them with silicone toys, since they can break down the toy’s surface over time. When in doubt, reach for a water-based lube, check the product label, and start with a small amount.

Sizing varies by brand, so we include the manufacturer’s own size chart right on each lingerie product page whenever it’s available — that’s always the most accurate guide for that specific item. If you’re between sizes, sizing up is usually the more comfortable choice. Still unsure? Email us and we’ll help.

We do our best to choose quality products and favor body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, which is non-porous, hygienic, and easy to clean. Materials and certifications vary by manufacturer, so please read each product’s description and the manufacturer’s information. If you have a specific sensitivity or question, just email us and we’ll help however we can.

As a general rule, clean most toys before and after each use with warm water and a mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner, dry them thoroughly, and store them in a cool, dry place (ideally separated so materials don’t react). Always follow the manufacturer’s instructions, and never submerge anything that isn’t labeled waterproof. For more, see our How to Care for Your Toys guide.

Yes — always. Every order ships in plain, unmarked boxes and packages, with a generic return address on the label. Nothing on the outside reveals where you shopped or what you purchased.

We allow no pornographic or lustful imagery anywhere on our store — but we can’t always control the manufacturer’s individual product packaging. We work with manufacturers as closely as we can, but as a small store in a very large industry, most won’t create custom packaging just for us. So some items may arrive with packaging that isn’t Christian-safe (we hope you’ll discard it right away). We’ve chosen to carry these products anyway so you have one safe place to shop — rather than being sent elsewhere into an environment full of pornography and lustful pop-ups.

For most orders, processing is 1–2 business days. Liberator products are typically made to order and can take 3–4 weeks to manufacture before shipping (some in-stock colors ship faster), and they ship via UPS only. Once your order leaves our warehouse, transit time depends on the shipping method you chose and the carrier — over which we have no control once the carrier accepts the package.

Yes. You’ll receive a notification as soon as your order ships, plus updates at key milestones. You can also track on our Romantic Blessings tracking page. If your order ships in multiple shipments, there’s a tab at the top of the tracking page for each one — click each tab to see its tracking and which items it contains.

We always try to ship your order in one package, but our real goal is to get it to you as fast as possible — so sometimes we ship from multiple warehouses. When we do, you’ll get a separate shipping notification and tracking number for each shipment, and your tracking page will show a tab for each one.

Yes, but at the customer’s risk. Packages may be too large for a P.O. Box, and the post office could place a hold or restriction on the shipment, so a physical address is always preferred. Note: some carriers won’t ship to P.O. Boxes at all — for example, Liberator products ship via UPS only and cannot be sent to a P.O. Box.

First, check whether your order is arriving in more than one shipment — you’ll have a tracking notification for each, and your tracking page shows a tab per shipment. If you still believe something is missing, email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com with your order number and the item you believe is missing.

If you use DuckDuckGo, its security measures can block third-party scripts — including our store’s navigation features — which can make the site hard to use. To fix it, whitelist romanticblessings.com in your DuckDuckGo settings. More generally, our store runs on Shopify with a third-party theme and several apps, and occasional updates can briefly affect a feature. If you ever have a technical or navigation issue, please email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com and we’ll help right away.

Due to federal health, safety, and hygiene law, we can’t take returns on about 99% of what we sell — but we’ll always work with you. Within our 30-Day Satisfaction Guarantee, we issue a store credit for the item’s purchase price (less any discounts, shipping, and tax) once we’ve resolved your return. To start: email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com with your order number, the date you received it, and the item(s) you’re not happy with; clean each item; and follow the instructions in our reply (we’ll tell you whether to return or safely dispose of it, at our discretion). See our full Return & Refund Policy.

Outside the 30-day window, we can help with defective items through the manufacturer. Most manufacturers offer at least a 90-day warranty (details are usually in your item’s packaging or on their website). You can file a warranty claim for a replacement — and while some of their verification emails go to an address we can’t access, we’re glad to help you find and fill out the right form. See our full Return & Refund Policy.

A few quick checks solve most battery-powered issues: (1) remove the small plastic battery tab if there is one; (2) make sure the batteries are installed correctly, not backwards; and (3) hold the power button for a few seconds (many products need a long-press so they don’t turn on by accident). If it still isn’t working, email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com with your order number and the item.

We do not support pornography or the porn industry. Honestly, many products in this category have some direct or indirect connection to it — any store claiming otherwise isn’t being accurate. We don’t like that, and we don’t condone or promote anything within it. But the reality is much like everyday life: countless companies Christians support have non-Christian connections. Our mission is simple — just as Jesus ministered to the sinner and the outcast, we believe we’re called to meet people where they are and be a Christian light in this industry, offering couples one safe place to shop without being bombarded by lustful images and language. Read Our Mission & Beliefs for more.

We believe we offer the largest selection of toys, games, and lingerie of any Christian store today — but there’s much we deliberately don’t carry. We don’t sell “realistic” products that could simulate inviting someone else into your marriage bed; we don’t sell anything we can’t find a modest, model-free, non-lustful image for; we consult Christian leaders on certain products and pass on those we agree wouldn’t benefit a marriage; and we won’t carry games whose cards or tasks involve anyone outside your marriage.

We honestly don’t — there’s no way for us to verify it. A pastor once asked us this very question. What we do know is that anyone who visits our store will, in some way, be exposed to Christianity and the Gospel. Jesus’ Great Commission calls us to go to all the world, not only believers — He sought out the lost and the hurting and met them where they were. We’re nowhere near being compared to Jesus, but we’re called to follow His example, and we pray that every visitor — believer or not — might at least encounter a seed of His love.

We deeply understand the need for privacy and discretion. Romantic Blessings will never provide your personal information to any party outside our ordering and shipping process, and we never sell your information. We have no access or visibility to your payment information — all payments are handled by secure, encrypted, certified third-party processors that meet the most stringent industry standards. And every package ships in a discreet, unmarked box that can’t identify where you shopped or what you bought.

Yes. We have no access or visibility to your payment information at all — every payment is handled through third-party processors that are secure, encrypted, certified, and compliant with the most stringent industry security standards.

For every purchase we send three emails (check spam/junk if you don’t see them): an order confirmation, a shipping notification at each milestone, and a review request after delivery. We also send, by request only: our newsletter (if you signed up), Bonus Blessings rewards updates (if you joined the program), and product-update emails (if you asked for stock or price alerts). We don’t send any other marketing emails at this time.

We’re always looking for partners in our mission. Because of what we sell, we’re not allowed to advertise on social media (Facebook, TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, Pinterest, etc.), so our growth depends on great service and word of mouth. The biggest helps: leave a product or store review (the single best way to help other couples feel comfortable shopping with us), share about our store and mission on your channels, and tell your friends.

Absolutely! Two ways: as a member of our rewards program you can share a code that gives friends a discount and rewards you with gift cards and discounts; or you can become a Romantic Blessings affiliate and earn commission on every order made with your code, paid monthly via PayPal. Learn more on our Partner With Us page.

We’d love to! We offer standard partnership programs and can also tailor a program to your goals. Learn more on our Partner With Us page, or email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com.

Most definitely! There are many ways to work together — advertising and links, free product giveaways for conferences and promotions, guest appearances, a featured spot on our partner page (and even a branded landing page on our store), and promotion across our channels. We’ll tailor any program to your goals. Learn more on our Partner With Us page.

Yes — our in-house team handles all of our marketing materials, social posts, and newsletters, and can help build whatever collateral you need. For special requests, email us at customerservice@romanticblessings.com.

Email is the best and fastest way to reach us: customerservice@romanticblessings.com. (We list a phone number because we’re required to, but it isn’t monitored — please email instead.) On business days we aim to reply within about 4 hours, and always within 24 hours; a message sent late in the day may be answered the next business day. Weekend messages are answered by Monday, and sometimes sooner.