Electrostimulation (E-stim) - What is E-Stim?

Simply put, it is the practice of using electrical stimulation for intimate and orgasmic purposes. Using electrodes or other equipment placed on erogenous zones, a user can direct currents to stimulate nerve endings and facili tate sensations of electrical ecstasy.

Equipment used in e-stim can vary and typically consists of low-voltage TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) Units, high voltage (but low current) Violet Wands, penis cages and sleeves, insertable options, and electrode-laden gloves. The ways to play are plentiful.

Electricity might sound like the least sexy thing you could ever do. Why would anyone want to be "shocked"?

Suprisingly, using an e-stim toy to certain erogenous zones can heighten sensitivity and deepen pleasurable feelings. It gets right into those deep nerves and muscles.

E-stim toys use controlled electric shock to deliver targeted, slightly sharp "shocks" to any part of the body the toy comes in contact with. These sharp "shocks" can be more intense to some than any other stimulation.

Many people have safely used electrical TENS units for years sold over the counter for back, muscle and other types of pain. E-stim play is like using a TENS unit, but on your most fun areas.

To fully enjoy and appreciate e-stim, we must understand how the same current can affect areas of our body differently:

• Never use e-stim on dry skin. Always use an e-stim approved lubricant.
• Thick and dry skin (calf, outer thigh, outer arm) is sensitive.
• Thin and dry skin (inner thigh, inner arm, lower back) is more sensitive.
• Wet or sweaty skin is about 10% more sensitive - so keep that in mind if you 're bringing electricity into play after some sweaty fun or a shower.
• External mucosa (the clitoris, external labia, or tip of the penis) are much more sensitive.
• Internal mucosa (inner labia and vagina) are extremely more sensitive.
• Skin injuries (cuts, bruises, scars) resist current compared to healthy tissue, so they must never be involved in this kind of play. If you can 't feel it completely, you won't be able to tell if it's too much.

There are a ton of possibilities with e-stim, but as with any measure of BDSM play, there are specific ways to experience electricity safely.

WARNINGS

• ALWAYS, ALWAYS check with your doctor first before engaging in any electrical stimulation play!
• Anyone with any type of heart condition, nervous system or other medical issues should NEVER use electrostimulationn toys.
• NEVER apply the sticky-pad form of electrodes anywhere on your chest area. That also includes not allowing a current to pass through your body, from one arm through to the other. There are special electrodes made for nipple play, but never use any other form of electrode on this area. Remember that muscle in the center of your chest? The one that beats, loves, and keeps you alive to kink on another day? The heart completely relies on our body's natural electrical currents to work correctly. Sticking a non-nip designed electrode to the center of your electrical mass could trouble your heart.
• Never make your own e-stim toy. Only use toys purchased from a reputable manufacturer.
• Keep it below the waist - never use e-stim toys near the heart or chest.
• Test on hand before using. Make sure you know what this feels like and if you are comfortable trying this play.
• Never use e-stim toys if you have any implanted medical device (i.e. pacemaker)
• Never use e-stim toys if you are pregnant or think you may be pregnant.

Communicate!

• Engaging in active communication is the key to having a fun and highly desirable anal experience. Whether you're guiding your spouse or listening for their direction, staying aware and engaged with each other will make all the difference. Find your voice and feel the comfort of knowing there's safety through communicating your needs and wants.
• It's natural to feel nervous when trying something new - especially something involving your electro play! - so take the pressure off and feel your feelings. This is a great opportunity to talk to your spouse about what's coming up so you're both on the same page.
• When you're on the receiving end, you are in control of speed, intensity level, depth, and sensation, and if something doesn't feel right, speak up. Your spouse won't know how it feels for you unless you say something - they want you to have a good experience just as much as you want that for them!
• When you're on the giving end, it's important to check in with your spouse. Should we speed up? Should we slow down? All these questions can easily be addressed with active communication, and it's not all up to your spouse to do the talking.
• Remember: If it hurts, you're doing it wrong.

Start By Testing on Hands

• If you're new to electro play and feeling hesitant, start by exploring how it feels to have a small, low level "spark" on your skin. If it feels right, continue to raise the intensity level slowly to know your limits.
• Using lube, only use e-stim toys on wet skin.
• Once your spouse feels comfortable with low levels of intensity, you can slowly increase the level as you become more accustomed to electro play.

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(Remember - There is No Such Thing as Too Much Testing and Safety)