7 Ways to Rediscover the Magic with Your Spouse This Summer

As the days get longer and the sun shines brighter, summer offers the perfect backdrop to reignite intimacy and deepen your connection with your spouse. Whether your relationship needs a gentle spark or just a refreshing new rhythm, the warmth and spontaneity of summer create endless opportunities to draw closer—emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

Here are some unique ways to reconnect with your spouse this summer and make intimacy a shared adventure:

1. Create a Summer Bucket List—Just for Two

Most families have a summer to-do list, but what about one just for you and your spouse? Sit down together and list 10 things you’d love to do as a couple—things that make you laugh, challenge you, or bring you peace. Think paddleboarding at sunrise, late-night stargazing, trying a couples dance class, or cooking a themed dinner from a different country each week. This shared planning not only builds anticipation but also reinforces a sense of teamwork and fun.

2. Plan an "Unplugged" Weekend Escape

Pick a weekend to escape, even if it’s just to a nearby town or a cabin a few hours away—and commit to unplugging. No phones, no emails, no social media. Just the two of you, nature, and uninterrupted time. It doesn’t have to be expensive; the goal is presence. Let conversations wander, enjoy slow mornings, and rediscover the simple joy of each other’s company. Shop our travel-friendly collection or shop our kits for all-in-one easy packing.

3. Bring Back Physical Touch—Intentionally

Summer naturally invites closeness, from beach walks to hammock lounging. Use this as a season to revive gentle physical affection. Hold hands during your evening walks. Apply sunscreen for each other as an act of care. Give impromptu back rubs after long days. These small, intentional touches go a long way in rebuilding physical intimacy and trust.

4. Have a Weekly "Nostalgia Night"

Choose one night a week to revisit your favorite memories together—watch your wedding video, go through old vacation photos, or recreate your first date. Sharing and reminiscing helps you remember why you fell in love in the first place and often leads to deeper conversations and laughter. You could even make a ritual of journaling together—writing down your favorite shared moments from the week.

5. Explore a New Hobby Together

Use the energy of summer to try something new as a team. Take a sailing lesson, try gardening, learn to cook a new cuisine, or start a couples book club. The key is shared learning—something where you’re both beginners, leaning on each other, encouraging, and laughing through the awkward first steps. Shop our games for a fun options.

6. Schedule Intimate Time—And Protect It

In the summer rush of family trips, barbecues, and house guests, intimacy can easily get pushed aside. Make a commitment to intentionally schedule alone time for intimacy—and protect it as you would a doctor’s appointment or family dinner. It doesn’t always have to be sexual; deep conversations, cuddling under the stars, or slow dancing in the kitchen can be just as powerful.

7. Surprise Each Other

Reignite flirtation and spontaneity. Leave love notes tucked into beach bags. Surprise your spouse with their favorite summer treat. Plan a spontaneous “summer date” like a rooftop picnic or a night swim. These little efforts show your partner they’re still worth pursuing—and being surprised is a reminder that love can always be exciting. Dressing up in costumes can be a fun way to surprise your spouse and we have lots of options, shop now by clicking costumes.