Intimacy Advent Calendar



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Looking for a Christmas gift for your spouse that shows you make intimacy a priority?  This Advent calendar is perfect for the season. This printable comes with activity cards you can choose from to give to your spouse, as well as templates for daily envelopes.

Choose from three different versions:

  • Romantic – Non-sexual cards only
  • Sexy – The Romantic set as well as a set of sexual cards
  • Black Label – The Romantic set, plus the Sexy set, plus additional activities for those who are more adventurous in the bedroom.

See below for more details on the versions.


Do you remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day.

Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? In fact, sometimes holidays just feel like a bit of a downer.  Many couples struggle to maintain intimacy during the holidays. Not just physical intimacy (but that too), but it’s also a high-point for arguments and blow-outs.

We wanted to make something that encouraged couples to draw together during this season and give back a sense of excitement into the holidays.

So, we put together an Advent Calendar for couples. It took us a while to figure out how to manage things like visitations (less of a problem this year I think), big dinners, people’s differing boundaries and comfort levels around certain sexual activities, travel, and even periods. But, I think we found a fairly elegant solution that will work for you, no matter what you have going on.

This product comes in three versions: Romantic, Sexual and Black Label:

The Romantic Set

This set contains 28 activity cards for you to choose from as well as 2 modifier cards to give your spouse some extra options should you wish.  It also comes with a page with different templates so you can fill in activities that you didn’t find contained in the product, or perhaps an activity that has special meaning to you.

As well, 25 envelope templates are provided, one for each day from December 1st to Christmas Day.  Simply cut them out and fold them over the cards you’ve chosen.  That’s what makes the idea of an Advent Calendar so exciting: your spouse won’t know what activities you have planned for them.

If sex is a touchy subject in your marriage, you don’t think your spouse would be happy with a sexy gift, or if you just would rather focus on romantic activities, this set is for you.

The Sexy Set

The Sexy Set includes everything in the Romantic Set as well as an additional 30 activities for you to choose from that are all of a sexual nature.  Depending on your marriage, busyness of the season, monthly cycles, expected exhaustion levels, or anything else you can plan around, you may wish to choose both sexual and non-sexual activities to gift this holiday season.  Items include oral, manual and mutual masturbation.

If you and your spouse prefer sex to be straightforward with maybe a little manual and oral sex thrown in, then this is the set for you.

The Black Label Set

While the sexy set will generally be okay with most people, this set starts pushing some of the boundaries many people have.  This set includes the previous two, plus 40 extra cards that contain activities including bondageticklers and impact play, anal play, power exchange and other edgy topics.  Of course, you’re welcome to choose the activities you are okay, mix them with the Romantic and Sexy Sets’ cards and leave the rest alone.

If you and your spouse are the adventurous type in bed, then this is the set for you.

Printable and ready to use

All you need is a printer, some paper (card stock makes a nice touch though), scissors and some glue or tape.  Within minutes, you’ll have a unique gift for your spouse that’s sure to promote intimacy over the Christmas season.

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Customer Reviews

Based on 1 review
Christopher T.
Super fun addition to Christmas!

Sexy and black label added a lot of adventures to our Christmas season! We tried new thinks, found out new things about each other. I dropped a star because the "Romantic" set lacked some creativity, there's a whole bunch of different variations on "give your spouse a massage" and a bunch of other stuff that I do already, not a lot of new ideas (but I did provide her breakfast in bed). But 100% worth it!

Hi there! Thanks for sharing your feedback on our Intimacy Advent Calendar. We're so glad to hear that you and your spouse had a fun and adventurous Christmas season with this product. We appreciate your comment about the 'Romantic' set and will definitely provide this feedback to the manufacturer. We hope you continue to enjoy the rest of the calendar and have a happy and intimate new year!