5 Ways to Rekindle The Spark In The Bedroom Tonight (+Bonus Tips)
5 Ways To Rekindle The Spark In The Bedroom Tonight (+Bonus Tips)
When you’ve burned the candle at both ends for so long, you can get trapped in a rut that’s hard to escape. For many married couples, finding legitimate ways to rekindle the flame feels impossible. Between the rigors of everyday life and the boredom that comes with years of monotony, husbands and wives often struggle to express their affections in new and exciting ways. So, we’re going to learn how to light fireworks in your bedroom again. Let freedom ring.
Why Does Sex in Marriage Get Dull?
God designed sex in marriage to be a beautiful and satisfying experience. An orgasm with your spouse is supposed to be so overwhelming to the senses that it compels you to do heroic feats in pursuit of it. The mere act of having wonderful sex with your sweetie ensures our survival in more ways than one. Thus, your marital bed is designed to fulfill your fantasies, not stifle them.
If your love life is dull after getting married it’s probably because you’re doing it wrong. “Doing it wrong” means concentrating on things that don’t really affect the bond between husband and wife - for example, focusing too much attention on reaching climax. Sometimes, it’s better just to enjoy the moment and let your true emotions express themselves in unique ways. Other times, you have to fight for your right to party.
Here’s something else many spouses don’t know. Most men need physical affection through sexual contact to feel loved by their wives. On the contrary, most women need emotional affection to reciprocate with sexual arousal. There’s actually a biological component to it, according to studies* . That means spouses have a big responsibility to attune to another or this won’t work. Good sex is a delicate balance, and major flames require expert pyrotechnics.
TIP: Talk to your spouse to find out which parts of your sex life they’d like to change and/or enhance and then incorporate that into your next display.
How To Rekindle The Spark In The Bedroom Tonight
Fanning the flames in your marriage isn’t nearly as hard as it seems, especially once you’re more aware of your spouse’s wants and needs. Meanwhile, use these five fiery tactics to receive their honest “Oohs” and “Aahs”:
TIP: Don’t be afraid to perk up your appearance with some enticing lingerie or pajamas.
TIP: This is the perfect time to try out some of those new oral skills you’ve been working on.
TIP: Try to focus your attention on how good everything looks and feels to enjoy it even more.
TIP: Get a versatile pleasure kit for couples to provide creative ideas when you can’t think straight.
TIP: Use some sex furniture to help maintain your favorite positions and experiment safely.
The Grand Finale
Remember, your marital bed has most likely stalled out because you haven’t tried a new approach in a while. It’s not because you don’t love each other anymore and it’s certainly not because you’re out of the mood. So, turn this night into a national holiday by setting off fireworks that can be seen (and heard) a mile away. Your spouse will thank you, and this time you can celebrate again and again.