You and your spouse are invited to try an experiment to see if increasing your sexual activity for a month brings you and lover closer together and fills your life with more pleasure. September 2022 a Sexy September, aka "Sextember!"


What is Sextember?

Take time this September to identify one or two things that are getting in the way of your intimacy and make a plan to work on it.

It doesn’t necessarily mean to have sex every day for the month (unless that’s what you both plan to do!). It could mean working on common obstacles to intimacy such as lack of time, feeling tired and stressed, kids, or bedroom boredom.

Sextember could become a way to be more deliberate in increasing your frequency and quality of sexual connection and pleasure.

How It Works

Create a simple plan to intentionally improve intimacy for the 30 days of September. If you complete at least 20 out of the 30 days, you'll receive a certificate of completion and be entered into a giveaway to win prizes! You do NOT have to upgrade to the premium version of the app to participate.

Use the Intimately Us app to create your Sextember plan and choose from a list of over 100 suggestions. Suggestions are organized by common barriers to improving intimacy, such as:

  • Bedroom Boredom 🥱
  • Lack of Desire 🤷
  • Too Tired or Stressed 😩
  • Lack of Time ⌚
  • Need Stronger Romantic Connection 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨
  • Kids 🚸
  • Confidence 💪

You can also come up with your own plan! Make it as sexy of a Sextember as you like. Mark off items you've completed in your plan using the Intimately Us app. If you don't want to use the app, a printable calendar version of Sextember is available on our website. If you choose to use the printable calendar send an email to with a picture or list of your completed challenges to be entered into the giveaway!

Before and after photos

Let’s try an experiment! In the 1990s a British research psychologist Dr. David Weeks found that couples that had an active sex life looked anywhere from 5 to 10 years younger.

Besides looking younger, there are dozens of other benefits to an active sex life.

Why not experiment for yourself if increased intimate activity during Sextember improves the way you look and feel about yourself? Your first and final task of Sextember is to take a selfie or photo of yourselves to create a "Before" and "After" comparison.

You are NOT required to send these photos to Intimately Us or anyone else. We'll announce the winner of the drawing around October 4th, 2022 on our Instagram account, @getyourmarriageon.

Lots of PRIZES including one from us, Romantic Blessings:⁠ ⁠ ♥ WeVibe Chorus Couple's 10 Function Remote Control Vibrator


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